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I learned that being sidelined is not just about being on the bench. It’s about being open to new experiences, new relationships. It’s about being willing to take a step back and see things from a different perspective.
As we talked, I started to see the QB in a different light. I saw that he was not just a star athlete, but a person - a person with flaws and fears, just like me. And he saw me in a different light too. He saw that I was not just a injured player, but a person - a person with hopes and dreams, just like him.
As I look back on that season, I realize that being sidelined was the best thing that could have happened to me. It allowed me to connect with the QB, to see him in a different light. And it allowed me to see myself in a different light too.
Over the next few weeks, the QB and I met up regularly. We would sit on the sidelines, watching the game and talking about our lives. He would tell me about his family, about his struggles in school. I would tell him about my own struggles, about my fears and doubts.
As we talked, I realized that we were not alone. We were both struggling, but we were struggling together. And in that moment, something shifted. We started to see each other in a different light. We started to see that we were not just teammates, but friends.
Sidelined- The QB and Me**